SERIOUS ONLY my new friend is very large, and when we have intercourse it ends up being painful for him.?

its not that i dont get wet enough, he is just EXTREMELY large, and he said it makes his penis feel kind of raw afterwards. what can we do... i dont want to stop sleeping with him, just because its painful to him.

Answer:
Well if his description of what is happening to his phallus is "raw," it would lead me to believe that there is too much friction. While you may not feel that there's a lack of natural lubrication, it still could contribute to the problem. I would strongly suggest a water based lubricant.

If you're using condoms, I would also suggest getting some specially formed for more well endowed males, and put a drop of water based lubricant inside of the condom before he puts it on.

If you aren't using condoms, really try the lubricant and also try various positions. Certain positions will be more or less constricting, and find the least constricting one. That should help somewhat. If you're not in absolutely horrible unbearable pain, then the size of his phallus is probably not the primary problem, or at the very least can easily be worked around.
More foreplay to get you ready and start out not full-length and slow, really slow.
if it hurts for him, he might have jock itch, there wouldnt be anyother reason why it would hurt him instead of u
Hopefully you are using a condom, and if you are then maybe he should try putting lubrication on his penis before he puts the condom on and on the condom once it is on.
Also, try some new positions.
buy a bottle of sexual lubricant!
If he wants comfort, tell him to use a lubricated condom, Maybe add more lube before he puts it on.
If he wants to know if we feel bad for him, JUST SAY NO!

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