Sex: Is it painful?
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I was one day away from my 16th birthday when I lost my virginity. I'd had my period since i was 13, but rarely used tampons. I did masturbate before hand for a few years. It didn't hurt me at all. It felt kind of strange at first, but once he hit my g-spot all was GREAT. So I didn't feel any pain.
I'm sure you know this, but please please PLEASE use protection!! I don't care how old you are, a baby is not something you want to have yet, okay?
Good luck, have fun, and be safe!
The first time might hurt yeah. it should be with someone you trust, just tell him to go slow and take it easy on you as its your first time. My first time didnt hurt much.. wasnt much fun either though, make sure you really want to do this, you will never forget your first time
GoodLuck
first off how old are you? sex is something that should be special between two people who love each other... YEAH right...i know you hear that all the time... you need to be careful and safe... there are to many things that you can catch that ajax won't rub off. be smart...
i also have a high tolerance for pain... but, the first time hurt like hell. i felt like i was being ripped apart.. then for about 3 days i walked around like i had been riding a horse for days..
its not all its cracked up to be. trust me... until you are older and more mature you probably will not understand it. or really get the enjoyment you could. i am 46 and have just learned how to relax and enjoy it...
be patient, once you do it you can never go back and undo it and all its going to do is make you feel bad about yourself..
go Jr go
i was too young but i didnt bleed. i think i broke my hymen dancing or something. than the first time with my current bf, (he was 15, i was 14, now hes 18 and im turning 17) he was too scared he wouldnt please me and he couldnt get hard, so for me that time it didnt hurt at all. but know if im not fully aroused it hurts still
OH MY GOSH! I was totally like in the same situation as you like a month ago.. I knew I was ready and really wanted to so I did. and the guy was one of my good friends but he had a g/f... and it hurt SO INSANELY bad.. like I mean I dont think I felt anything pleasurable about it.. and in the end the g/f blamed me for it and he hasnt talked to me since. so all in all my first time SUCKED!... but I mean I doubt that your first time is gonna be the same or even remotely close to mine or anyone elses .. so bascily...
Yes it hurts.. you cant get passed that but I hear that the second time is always better so I mean no matter when you have it its still gonna hurt so why not do it now?
The first time for me was when I was 20. It did hurt...quite a bit, but, I've known girls who have cried because of the pain...didn't hurt that much. However...it was worth it : )
For me, My first time was very painful. I had no idea what I was getting my self into. I was 14 years old and another guy sort of pressured me into doing it. So make sure You are willing to do it WITH NO PRESSURE!
Anyways, Your first time feels like a sharp pain in your insides. Its also very unpleasant the next couple of times but once you get the hang of actually having and enjoying sex, its soooo satisfying.
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