My girl is in hospital she tryed to kill herself?
anyway iam not alowed to see her untill to night any ideas wat i can say to her or give her to make her fell better
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Words mean nothing, actions say it all. Be their for her, tell her what she needs to hear. It is pro bally not you, she is ashamed. Tell her you will walk her through this. She tried to commit suicide because she believes she has lost control. Help her regain her balance, and continue on her path towards her future.
i love you
This poor girl has been through and is going through so much. She really needs a good therapist to talk over everything she's been through - because until she gets passed that - the future will be very difficult. God Bless.
I think it would be best to go to see her..and, just hold her hand, and be there for her...I am sorry this happened...dont worry about what to say...just be there.
i know that you've been through a lot and i know that you've been strong through it. right now, the person i need and our baby needs most is you. i love you so much iand im asking you to be stronger now for us because we'll make it through.
and be there for her as you hold her hand. it will probably mean a lot for her just that you're there and you care about her.
nothing will make her feel better ... You can;t control her emotions.
She needs theripy for what happened in her past. A woman who was abused as a child can have a brakedown when she gets pregnant or has a child. It is better if she gets the help now, than have found out after the baby that she was having serious issues dealing... because now she has time to try to heal.
You can be there.. let her know yu aren't going anywhere. things are going to get tough... this is only the beginig as she starts dealing with her past... in a therputic way things are going to get real hard.
And that is when it is easy for men to run.
I say this... to preper you.. if you know it will get a lot tougher before better. hopefully you wont run.
If you don;t think you can handle it. don;t lie to her. That is worse... because in the future she wont believe any man again.
So if youu are there for the long haul... get the info from her docs about what to expect. So that way you wont be blindsided.
don;t treat her like she is glass. Don;t treat her any diffrently. because right now... everyone is treating her like glass... and as if she is VERY broken. She will need to know someone remembers the person that can be very whole... and they are looking at her. You are still my ... what ever you call her.
I did that with a friend's daughter who told me she was in rehab for herion. She said to me... don;t hate me. I looked at her and said "You are still the little girl I bounced on my knee. and you always will be." Her meakness went away and her smile returned. because I kept the real her in my heart. I told her she had to work on herself... like we all do... but she is still the little girl I would babysit.
Good luck.
Well just come in with a loving attitude. Look into her eyes and say "I love you." Plain and simple like that. And don't say anything more when you say that. Ask her if she needs anything and after about a half an hour ask if she wants you to leave, you don't want to be too pushy. And bring up different subjects other than what happened. And don't stop talking. Say whatever. Bring in stuff she likes to read or things like that. Make her feel at home.
tell hershe'll be ok
Okay, I am telling you what I love hearing from my boyfriend when I get self-mutilating. Just tell her you love her and that you will be there to help her and support her. Be completely sincere, we can tell when you truly mean it. Just knowing that he is always with me and supporting me really helps me, gives me the strength to fight again. Right now, while she is in the hospital, remind her to rest and relax. Get the help and support she needs. Tell her that you will attend therapy afterword so you can be a strong unit, and better parents. Show her that you are fighting for her, and with her. Good Luck and God Bless you both, she sounds lucky to have a guy who cares enough to ask how he can help.
yikes. its best to get her into support groups when shes allowed out. she will never be able to feel better unless she doesn't grieve and accept the things that have happened to her. she needs your support but she also needs her space. and ya she needs totake care of herself for your child :)
Just tell her that you love her, and that you will be there for her every step through her pregnancy and will be a good father to your child and will always be there for her. Just tell her that.
Awwww... It's like a love story. Tell her how you really feel. You don't have to plan anything out. The right words will come out perfectly if you really love her.
i was raped at 14, i know how she feels. sh!t gets overwhelming at times and you just feel like you want to curl up in a ball and die. i know what you mean by the therapist not working, the doctors, my parents, and faculty from my school forced me to go, it didn't help me either. just tell her you love her and that you're always going to be there for her no matter what. i feel for you, i really do. my boyfriend goes through the same thing with me...except i haven't tried to kill myself yet. we actually had a run-in with the kid that did it to me in stop and shop and i broke down in tears and ran out of the store. just be there for her, maybe bring her some roses. if you need some more advice or just need someone to talk to, feel free to email me. i know what you two are going through, its really tough. but like i said, just be there for her and love her. she really needs your support right now.
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