What do i do??
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I wish she would visit a school counselor or someone and definetly her parents. He will probably keep trying this if it is her brother, and she will ceertainly end up pregnant and STD.
She needs to get to a Dr. Why didn't she tell her parents in the first place, especially if they know he has STD?
She probably has an std if the guy that raped her had an std. The only way you can tell is to get tested.. And she needs to tell her parents.
She could have an STD or be pregnant. She can take a pregnancy test. To find out if she has an STD she probably needs to go to the doctor. I don't know if you have women's clinics where you are but here in Texas we have free clinincs for girls who think they might be pregnant or have an STD. They keep everything confidential so nobody will have to know about it. But she should also go to the police and tell them what happened. She needs to tell them who did it b/c you said you knew who it was, right? Anyway that's my advice on what she should do.
Tell her parents or go get tested. There are clinics that are for testing. But mainly TELL THE PARENTS. They won't care if she skipped school, as long as their kid is ok. The faster the better! And here is a good idea, go to the POLICE!
And as a friend, you should convince her that it is the best thing to do. It will be embarassing for her, but stick with it. She will need all the help she can get. I would tell her parents, but no one else, she might hate you for it, but she will get over it. Don't tell anyone (other than the parents) let her do it. She will let people know in time.
I am so sorry to hear that. That is horrible! She definitely needs to tell someone. if she doesnt feel comfortable doing that though she should at least go to a free clinic (planned parenthood) and get checked. You can go and be completely anonymous! I hope she is ok and didnt catch anything or get pregnant. I'll keep her in my prayers!
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