I am married,but still a virgin.?
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I think you need to see a physician and a mental health therapist. You obviously have issues that need to be attended to.
Some having him stimulate you first. Try having him lube up and go in, and then stimulate you afterwards. It is normal for you to feel done after you have orgasmed. It tires you out. But I could imagine this could be making your husband feel alot worse than you do.
try having sex before you orgasim
well of course you will.just stop with all the foreplay and get down to it. Your nerves are acting like most men's ...once you have an orgasm, you cannot stand any more stimulation for a while. So have him stop stimulating you..that is just not very smart.
That is not normal. I would think about seeing a sexual therapist or talking to your doctor. Did you have any bad sexual experiences when you were younger to feel like that? Maybe you are unknowingly protecting yourself.
Why do you feel aweful for releasing tension? You should not feel bad that you had a sexual expierence with your partner and had an orgasm also. There has to be something in your past that made you feel that having an orgasm was disgusting, shameful when in fact it is releasing tension and makes you feel relaxed. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just need to stop feeling ashamed and enjoy.
Try heating the engine, not turning it over. Your nerve endings are over stimulated after orgasm, which is normal. You should try other things instead of just what you are doing. Then instead of finishing you first, consummate the marriage. If you don't orgasm during, then let him give you a manual orgasm. And I agree, use plenty of lubrication.
for get the fore play and just go straight to sex when you get used to jus doing that then go back to the fore play before sex
You definitely will. Just think ..that feeling can happen with him inside you and it can be twice as satisfying. Instead of having him manually stimulate youall the way to an orgasm, stop him half way while the feeling's still there and start intercourse. That climatic sensation will continue as he moves, you'll orgasm, hopefully that'll spur him on to orgasm as well and you'll both be happy. Try it. Actually once you fight that 'awful feeling' it eventually disappears. Good luck tonight!!
see theapist immediately
SEE A SEX THERAPIST IMMEDIATELY
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