24 yr old female with NO sex drive. How to get her some?
I am now more concerned than angry. Something has to be wrong. I'm sure her 2 tours in Irac didn't help. But I'm woundering how I can?
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You need to fun and creative.Something that will appeal to her where she cant help but want it. Sometime lack of interest dosent mean she dosent love you or interested in you.She could be MADLY n love with you just bored.TEST RUN:light candles before home..lots of them..flower petals on the bed& chocolate candies/strawberries...try a dice game from Spencers. You roll one it says "kiss or rub"...the other says"on lips or *%^$". that makes it fun. keep it sexy.
Is she on birth control pills? Sometimes that can negatively affect libido. She may want to try a break from them or a different brand.
Coconut oil is good for regulating hormones, whether they be too low or too high. Make sure it's virgin (raw) coconut oil though.
Ask her to consult her gyn or seek marital counseling.
Maybe it's you, and it's IRAQ....
Some women just have other things on their mind.
If you feel you aren't getting what you need out of the relationship, then its time to move on.
what the **** stop making her have sex if she dosent want to, of you want sex grab a pillow
First of all, it's Iraq, not Irac.
She might just not be ready. 24 isn't that old, and especially when someone goes through the military training system, it can inhibit their maturity in other areas.
Ask her if SHE considers it a problem and if she might consider going to speak to a counselor about it. If she wants to then fine. But don't expect some miracle cure, ok? Some people just don't have high sex drives.
Get over it. And if it's that much of a problem then move on with your life.
you can't force her, maybe she needs counseling or maybe she has lost interest in you!
may be she is not into guys. or may be she is just like that. Try to find her week spot, once you do and u ll make her horny give hr me of her life. Then she will be wanting more.
Listen to what she says not what you hear. Iraq is hell and where your needs are important, help her heal and you both can enjoy life.
It sounds like she's been through a lot, maybe she just needs some time to adjust. Just because she has no fantasies and doesn't think about sex all the time doesn't mean she has a problem. Some women find compassion and emotion from men more attractive than fantasies. Try lighting some candles, playing some soft music and just hold her and talk. Let her know that sex is not the most important thing and that you love her for other reasons, too. Maybe when there's a little less pressure and stress about it, she'll relax, too. Just enjoy eachother.
Lets be honest your not the one for her . She just needs to find what she wants .and she needs time to find it . So stop yelling and start listening to what she is trying to say . It may just be she is still tring to get over what she went through and saw .
u just first of all try to understand her feelings and love her.u should not consider her as an object of pleasure as u r not entitled to trepass her bodily limits.i u consider her for initmate realtionships then try to convince her .its her right to allow u or to reject u.no laws on land can force a woman to have sex against her will.
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