Father died a month ago?
is that normal or healthy?
how to fix it?
Answer:
First of all, let me tell you how sorry I am for your loss.
You don't need to fix anything. Time will resolve this issue for you. What you are going through is perfectly healthy, perfectly normal. As time moves on, so will you, and you will begin to accept what deep down inside you know to be true.
I wish I could give you a hug. Be good, stay healthy, and please believe that tomorrow, the sun will rise again.
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Just talk to another family memeber.
I'm so sorry. Keep all your memories. Talk about your father to your family and friends. Remember all the good times you had together.
Oh! Sweetie, I am sorry to hear that, what you need to do, is cry your heart out, take it off of your chest, once you do that, you will feel better, it certainly won't go away, but at least it will give you the strength to deal with your grief.
Sit down with your cousin or your best friend, talk and empty out the burden, that is eating you away, I wish I had a magic wand to make it all go away.
Be strong, have courage and take one day at a time, and move on with your life, after all he will always be with you, watching over you...Good Luck
I wish I had an answer for you. I was extremely close to my father, and he died about 8 years ago. One month later, my dog died (of course, no comparison). I haven't gotten over it yet, but they say time heals all. And it does get better. No, I don't think it's healthy to pretend he's away; you need to face the truth. It's hard, but it will be OK. Death is an integral part of life.
That's not normal or healthy.
Also as you post this question, it means it's still under control. To fix it you have to know the reason. If you still think that a died person may come again to life to the extent that you didn't tell the people for example, that needs outside help. If you just have this feeling but you deal with facts normally, you just need to change the place and refresh. I'm not a specialist, but I just know the feeling.
If you need to discuss it with someone you don't know and he don't know you, send me.
We have to face the reality. Bible says, It is appointed to men to die once, and after that judgment. We are all dying, sooner or later. To die can be beautiful if it is going to Heaven, our eternal home, through Jesus Christ whose Blood can cleanse all our sins and unrighteousness. Never, never, miss Heaven for anything of this troubled and sinful world. Life on earth is short and uncertain. Heaven is wonderful beyond descriptions and forever without end. Best wishes!
I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. Death is very, very hard to deal with. Talk to some relatives or a therapist if you feel you can't deal with it and aren't feeling any better. Time will help.
i am so sorry for your fathers loss sweetie the only thins i can tell you are dot hold them back talk to family memebr, fiends or a religous leader
I'm sorry to hear that. My mother died 2 years ago and it still feels very fresh to me. I have dreams about her constantly. It takes a very long time to get past the death of a loved one especially if you were the first one to know. What really helps is talking about it with your family and friends or pretty much anyone who will listen. Trying to block out stuff like that is ultimately harmful. If you need help feel free to message me.
I would say it is normal, or not uncommon anyway.
I wouldn't say it's healthy though. the sooner you can accept it then the sooner you can recover.
It will be hard and will take a long time but time will patch over the sorrow you feel.
I lost my dad 10 months ago and still feel it nearly every day but it is easier now and maybe time will heal
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