Should i change for me or others?
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as long as you feel good being yourself, then it doesn't matter what anybody thinks. now, if there are certain aspects of your personality that you and others feel should be imporved, work to improve them.
Who cares if you feel good in your self that is all that matters. If people dont like you then that is there problem. For everyone who doesnt like who you are there will be more who do.
Be your self for you. dont change for anyone.
never change to suit someone else - you wouldn't be who you are then
As long as u feel good, who cares what any1 else thinks! Never change for others! Ur opinion counts first! xxx
You are you no matter what. Like you said, you feel good in yourself, so why change for others. If other people don't like you, it's their fault, there will be plenty of people who will like you because you are you.
Be yourself and change for no one but yourself.
It is a good feeling to be liked, but let people like you for what you are and not what you think they want you to be.
hi,
feeling good in yourself should always be enough! Any congratulations to you that you feel like that, so many people struggle to get inner happiness and self contentment! There's a saying I learned recently "what other people think of me is none of my bussiness" which is true, everyone has thoughts, i am sure there is people who don't like but those who are close to you and who matter are the ones that accept you for who you are good and bad and will be happy if you are!
best of luck
xxx
If you feel good in yourself there is no need to change. It is YOU that is important not what others think.
Stay as you are.
You should never change for anyone but yourself.You'll lose yourself if you staryt changing for others.
You should change for yourself only...screw what other people think. It's your life Honey! good Luck!
if you like yourself then you change nothing its others who have a prob not you, decarte i think once said you are what you are, mmmmmmm or was it popeye. lol
I think to a certain extent, none of us are immune to the social psychology that pertains to how others perceive us. However, if you try to change yourself for others and for example, participate in behavior that you are uncomfortable with, you will not be very confident. Just be who you are. There are people out there that will think you're cool enough to extend their friendship to you.
you should never change for other people.if people don't like you for who you are then they can just go to h***.cuz if you always change for other people you will forget who YOU are and it's very hard to remember.
You are the only person who will be with you for every minute of every hour of your entire life. You need to love who you are--if you don't, you'll never be able to truly love anyone else.
If you feel good about yourself--great. If you think that you are doing something that makes others avoid you, think about what that is--and try to change it--but not for them--for you, and your happiness in life.
Asking this question shows how screwed up you really are.
I have been unhappy with myself for yrs, being quite loud but a true honest person. I tried to change as i too hate being loud so i got obsessed with my voice and tried to change. It was that and other things which lead me to a breakdown, i tried to please everone, and wanted to be loved by everyone, but in the end after intense therapy i have discovered that is the real me, why should i change and quiet down for the minority who can't handle me being quite loud but happy and excited.
I have realised i am happy as me now and don't have to pretend to be something i am not, as the ones who are loyal will always love u, no matter what.
So no do not change to please everyone else, as long as u happy with u, thats a good start.
Calligas
if you are happy with you, don't worry about what others think,
Change has to be done by you not others. If you think you need to change then do. Because others judge people by looks and other things it really does not matter. i have a philosophy for myself. I am fat and ugly and guess what I am not out to impress anyone. Here is my philosophy. "I am not out to impress anyone, If someone does not like the way I look, then don't look at me." I live by that.
Honestly, who cares what other people think? Oh, wait everyone does, but you can't let that bother you or run your life. All that matters is that you are happy with yourself and that you love who you are. If people don't like you for who you are then they aren't a true friend. You will find friends who love you and love being around you for who you are, not who they want you to be.
You should not change for others. Try not to worry about what others thing and you will feel much better.
You should never change for anybody else, friends, family, others. Changing to what others want you to be will hurt you inside, so if you are happy with who you are, stay that way. Now, if there are some things about your own personality that YOU think YOU should change, work on that. I hope this helps.
-Kiwi
You should not want to put on an act just for others. The only person that matters is you. If you are having problems you need to go to a mental health DR. If you will set and talk with a DR and tell him or her the problem you are having and tell it all. Dont hold back anything let it all out. I know what you are going through I have been seeing a mental health DR for 10 years now. Dont try to act like nothing is wrong it will only get worse. So PLEASE go see a DR and they will help you.
it just does,nt matter what other people think
who is living in your skin - others or you?
then live for yourself and be happy with who you are, or change
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