About my appearance; Are there pro. judgers that judge your purely on looks, and also more stuff, plz help...?
Answer:
Quit putting so much focus on where you are going wrong. Next, if you don't like putting so much emphasis on what you wear or how you look then don't. Quit trying to rush relationships, you aren't ready for one, painful and lonely as that may sound. Take some time and learn to enjoy being yourself first. If you want to meet people find something you really like and take a class with other people who like what you do. Always remember there is nothing wrong with you. You just don't do the same things everyone else does and or see things the same way they do. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. Just means you aren't just like everyone else, uncomfortable, but a good thing.
I know this sounds like something out of a Disney movie, but it's not appearance that really matters. You are definitely being hard on yourself. I at times have thought to myself that I was ugly, but after a while, I put it behind me, and it made me more confident, happier, and a better person. For example, say someone is the most attractive guy in the whole world, but on the inside, he is a massive asshole. Nobody will want to hang out with him, no matter how good he looks. Just be yourself, ignore what other people think about you (unless it's a good thought, then focus on it!) and forget this whole judging thing. Nobody needs to be judged on looks. It's all personality. That's what truly makes the man. Hope this helped.
The medicine and health information post by website user , ByeDR.com not guarantee correctness , is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
More Questions and Answers...