Am i supposed to take everything for how it looks?
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Geez, I don't know. I once dated a guy like this. It was a serious issue with me because I felt like the Man all the time. The tough one who was the shoulder to cry on...just didn't work out. I thought he was a wimp, didn't respect him.
Just live your life, you're special and don't let anyone change you.
Try not to take things to seriously, especially yourself. Lighten up on yourself, after all you may just be a sensitive person. Remember it takes all kinds to make the world go round. You apparently went to see a professional and they even thought you were fine. So don't worry about being so emotional. At least your in touch with your feelings!
It takes a lot of self control but you can cover up the projection of your emotions. You will still feel the emotion you would just be holding back the crying and laughing. You could tell people that you had a brain injury and explain the crying or laughing that way... saying that it has caused these symptoms if it is embarrassing you. If it doesn't bother you then just let people deal with it as they please..
I'm the same way. I wear my emotions on my sleeve is what people tell me. My boss told me I need to learn to be less emotional and well It just made me ticked off. Too bad I couldn't tell him where to stick his too emotional. I think it is what makes me who I am. There are just some people who are born to wear their hearts on their sleeves and be what they are and feel. I dont think there is anything wrong with that at all.
We call this emo or the start of depression. The upper brains don't want to erase anymore wrong beliefs because there is a waste chemical released into the spinal fluid and it then goes to the auto brain or the lower brain that is responsible for the heart rate and breathing etc. It also can cause you to cry to make a chemical to reverse the depression chemical. We can all say yeah 'It was like that for me'. You are an outcast and will be so for the rest of your life. It's not so bad cheer up. A new friend will come along and tell you the social rules for greeting and interface. I would tell all I know because I hate the system and all the cruel things it does.
i would have supposed that you had suffered all-the-time or some-time anxiety within that you couldn't control yourself that you'd take things for how it looks.am i right at this point?...you might be hurt badly in the past by someone or something else.and you unconsciously repressed the anger deep inside that it had lurked underneath.and the repression equally means the anxiety.so the ANXIETY within is the key here...take some anti-anxiety or anti-depressant prescribed by your doc would help lessen the anxiety as well.
theres always gona b somethin there that will make u wana cry...takes a while..but you just brush it off if its not a constant hurt from someone.People tend to hurt you more when u show your weakness
People have told me this about myself. It's not always a bad thing. However, I'm learning about co dependency- I'm not saying you have it. However, I am saying you should research it a little. You may not be conscious of something being wrong. However, when you are that emotional there IS A REASON. You should NOT hold your feelings in. This can/will cause other problems. Read up on self control. I hope this helps.Also, things are not always what they seem to be. That may well be an understatement. GL
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