Should I tell someone? My boss was hitting on me.?

I work with mostly men. Only one other girl and she is home at the moment (and 6 hours away). I am only 19 and my one boss (who is my father's age) acts like a father to me. He takes interest in my life and tries to teach me as much as he can about our profession. I also work with a man (who is about my grandfather's age, 76). He is a doctor. Currently my boss, who acts like my father is on vacation and left me in charge. The doctor I work for (the one that is 76) asked me to do a research project with him. I was really excited about this because it would work as my senior project and help me get in med school. But what he really wanted was to get me alone and hit on me. He told me that he wanted me to meet with him and said something about a relationship and that his intentions weren't honorable. Should I tell my other boss that this happened (the one that acts like my father) even though he works for this doctor too and has for 33 years? I'm afraid he'll try to hurt the doctor.

Answer:
just keep tabs on it. if he tries again, go to the hr dept if there is one. If not, tell someone else. If you can get evidence it would be great. It could be a police matter if he does anything indecent, but he is pretty old so just try and talk to someone without creating too many waves. You could check your workplace harrassment rules and if they are being breached your recommendation to med school will not be affected. In fact if you mention this before to someone you will have evidence if they try to sack you after you speak up.
no nono. to like most career women do and youll get a promotion.
To be honest, you'll probably get fired and nothing will happen to the boss. It's not fair, nor right, but that's how it works. Plus, there's no guaruntee they'll believe you. I'd tell the guy who's hitting on you to **** off but not tell the boss anything.
JUST BLOW IT OFF
IF YOU SAY SOMETHING IT MIGHT RUIN YOUR JOB
IF YOUR COMFTERBLE JUST TELL THE MAN
You need to discuss it with someone is there anyone outside the workplace you could talk to this will help give you a clear prespective on what direction you would like to take going straight to the guy who treats you like a daughter I feel would be a mistake

Good Luck
Is there a human resources department? or a personnel officer in your company/organization?
If so, go straight to them, it comes under bullying and harassment in the workplace and you could get compensation.
Please do! What he's doing is wrong and you know it is because it's making you uncomfortable. He deserves to be put in his place. Please do tell your boss, hon. I've had the same situations at work. He should understand if he's so fatherly to you.
i understand where you are coming from as a boss tried to hit on me when i was 16 and when i didn't come across i got fired i did not tell anyone for years. seeing as how you are so young too can you talk with a trusted family member, friend or pastor? even if you do get fired it will probalby workout better for you before he blackens your name. my thoughts and prayers go with you ask god for guidance.
People telling you to let it go cuz you'll get fired are full of crap.
get you a pocket tape recorder and continue on doing research and every time have that recorder going. if he brings it up again you have it on tape and you have your case made. If he tries to say you recorded him illegally,all you say is you were recording the research for your school project and he just happened to get caught on tape sexually harrassing you. also make sure it is recorded that you are not interested in his advances.Take it to your boss and also a good attorney.
This type of behavior is unacceptable and should not be tolerated by any woman trying to do her job.
odds are it wont b the first time hes been accused.Do what u gota do woman...guarantee theres been ALOT of women he's done this too.Men like dat make me sick
Lodge a police report against him and sue him in court. Make him lost his licence to pratice as a doctor. Bash him up. I am a qualified professional but I am not with him. Take any legal actions or do anything you can to make him go bonkers. I'll be glad to help you with this kind of problem if I am there provided you are my girlfriend. Otherwise, I'll tend to be a little bit reluctant. However, don't be dishearten since you still receive a good piece of advice from me.
the first thing you should do is try to handle the situation yourself and tell him you are not interested. If that doesn't work, get it on tape, and pursue it, if necessary. At 76, it's prolly just wishful thinking on his part.
all of this let it go and handle it yourself stuff is baloney. what he's doing is illegal. TELL! if you do lose your job, i'm sorry --but there are much better jobs out there. and there are agencies and police departments who will believe you. don't let him get away with it just because you are young and inexperienced. that's exactly what he's counting on. be true to yourself first. always! best of luck to you. grmmynet

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