A concern for confidence...?

I think of myself as an increasingly independant young and attractive woman. But, lately I've been experiencing an increasingly significant amount of stress and fear with every promotion or raise in the paycheck. There are times where I get a sense of "stage fright" when talking to clients or co-workers (i.e. hands shaking nervously, speech impairment, strange eye contact...). What gives?! Has anyone experienced this with their first taste of independance? How can I make myself more assertive and confidant at the workplace?

Answer:
Remember when you told yourself that this is what you wanted? Now that it is here you are questioning your ability to deal with or handle it all. You knew then that you could do it you just need to remember that this is what you wanted.

We all have moments where we feel as though someone else is better or faster or better equipped to deal with things. You are in the drivers seat now and lots more is expected of you. A good book (albeit an old one) is "Swim with Sharks Without Getting Eaten" Business strategy and social savvy are excellent tools for you to focus on now.
remember to breathe
just stop thinking of it differently, so you might be getting paid more, or you might have got some kind of promotion...you are still the same girl. so when you start feeling nervous just think of why you are there.you were wanted for that position at the work place...you co-workers already have faith in you that you can do your job.so give youself some faith and dont be so hard on yourself, im sure your doing great. and if the nerves still continue after that, just just excuse yourself to the back and go take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves...


hope it works, im sure you doing great
I think you are an outsider and so you are a sales attraction. The pressure arises from the customers realizing this and using the second vocabulary to ask you personal questions. Best if you can learn the rules of greeting and interface . Also learn the second vocabulary.

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