What was the most difficult decision you've had to make?
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to tell her my secret of falling in love with her, i told her and turns out she felt the same! great decision!
Do I like Kirk or do I like Picard?
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I am in the middle of the most difficult decision I had to make, I am moving across country to move my entire family (husband and newborn) into my moms so we can go to school, my husband is the one that wants us to do this, I can foresee regretting it, but I think that you really cant judge yourself based on the decisions you have made, as they say hindsight is 20/20.
the most difficult secision ive eer had to make was... hot-dog or tri-tip
I fought my mother and stepfather to keep my (unplanned) son who I had at age 17. I followed my gut emotions. I do not regret the choice. It's wasn't easy (I was single and moved out of home shortly after) but he is worth my struggles.
To break up with my first boyfriend or not...I did and I don't regret it at all...I've got a much better guy now, not right after of course I played the dating game for a couple of months...I'm happier because I feel like I've expierenced life more and found a guy that can relate to me on a much deeper level.
Which career path to take - the one with less schooling that I can begin right now and get a decent pay; or the one with years of school and not a whole lot of money at the end; but much respect and the ability to have a wide range of job openings.
I still haven't even decided.
To not kill myself. I really wanted to at the time. Funny thing is even though I'm not religious at all, I got a very strong feeling that it would be a spiritual mistake.
I know it's corny but I eventually came to the conclusion that life is the greatest gift I have, and despite any difficulty or sickness I face, it is essential to do the best I can and improve.
Plus, I was seeing a shrink about three times a week... and heavily medicated
If you decide to put your baby up for adoption, you will be my hero. It takes great strength to give a child a chance at 2 parents in a stable environment.
I wish you the best.
Selling my 4 bedroom house in N.H. & move into a mobile home in Bennington,Vt.We had bought the mobile as a home when we'd need to come to Vt. to take care of mother.Then my husband passed away & I definately had to sell-yes,I regret my choice but that's life in the fast lane I guess.
oh my gosh why are you having an adoption?
The hardest decision I had to make was to let go when my daughter was talking about moving her family to Colorado from St. Louis. I am close to Chicago so the thought of her moving even further away and not being able to see her or my granddaughter was breaking my heart.
To save my own sanity I made the decision that she had to do what was going to be best for her and her family -- that it was her life and I would not do or say anything to keep her here.
As it turned out, she accepted a position with Wash U in St. Louis and Colorado is just a far-a-way thought.
This is similar to your position. As I grew up I knew of girls who ended up as single mothers. It is such a difficult life for both the mother and the child. If you have the physical and emotional support of your family, any decision you make will be easier. One recent case I know of is she is living with her parents, they are raising her son and she is working in a bar with the father nowhere in sight. You have to look at the whole movie as we say in AA. Watch the beginning when it is a tiny, beautiful baby and continue on watching the movie with the illnesses, the sleepless nights, grade school homework, you working, daycare, finances, etc., to however you see the movie ending. Whatever decision you make, it will be your Higher Power pointing you in the right direction. I can't imagine the pain you are experiencing.
My prayers.
A Mom
Most difficult, to place my child for adoption. I thought that I wouldn't be the best parent for her because I was young and didn't have money but I would have had my family's full support including financially.
I do regret my choice but I have come to terms with my decision. I regretted it as soon as I placed my child into another person's arms.
In the end, I don't know. I would suppose that would depend on what she would have to say.
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