Weird feeling???
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LOLOLOL wear ear plugs
i hate it when my sister has sex with some *** on my couch
it makes sloshy noises and i feel like puking or somefing
or just put on some music
do it turn u on?.....HAHAHA! ..
naw im kidding haha
If they didn't have sex you wouldn't be here. It is a very important part of a relationship and they won't stop even if you ask them too. I suggest turning on the raddio or turning the tv up.
They are bad parents !
Tell them that you think they should be allowed to do these "things", but they need to find a way/place to do it so that it doesn't disturb you.
Tell your parents you can hear them and that you know it's not wrestling. (And they've been having sex for a lot longer than a year! *l*) They should be mortified enough to modify their behavior.
Go outside until they are done. My parents did the same thing so I can understand how you feel. They are just being adults, don't interrupt them no matter how gross it is to you.
Tell them it bothers you. They should do it somewhere else or sometime else.
that is, of course, a normal feeling. it's like you are the one who's embarrassed, and not them. tell it to them so they can tone it down. you can't just tell them to stop, they're adults! lol. besides, you should be happy that they're still together.
just talk with them to make them understand that you don't feel comfortable hearing them.
Well when you hear them try to tune it out with music are TV are leave the house in go somewhere else
Dont tell them you know that theey are oh in you feel like that because you dont wantot think of your parents doing stuff like that to each other in hearing it gross me out.. good luck with that
Thinking about parents having sex is a little disturbing for most people.
You need to remember that they are only human, they have needs and are expressing their love for each other. I would not say a word, the issue is that you feel uncomfortable with your parents having sex. My advice, put on some headphones and ignore them.
Honestly? u should tell them what u know and how it makes u feel. if they respond negatively, then i would say, just leave when they start.
Talk about bad memories, I've had that same problem. When I was younger anyway. It's only normal to feel that way I guess, unless you're into that or something.
But if I were you, I'd get a pair of ear plugs. Or if they rock the house. ( lol ) Go walk the dog, turn up the tv, or confront them and tell them to knock it off.
O god that must be horribly traumatic lol
All those feelings are incredibly normal, no one wants to see or hear that from their parents! I wish i could type all the disgusted noises i am making right now thinking about it. Either tell them to keep it down or get the hell out of there.
Might want to let them know you can hear them and try to work out a different situation, maybe you can change rooms or something. If they don't believe you, next time you hear them, bang on the wall and tell them to get a room!
Sex is a natural and very good thing for a married couple. Asking them to stop will probably be fruitless, but you could ask them to tune it down so you don't have to hear it. If they're not aware of how much you're actually hearing they may think they are doing it at an acceptable volume level. Just let them know that you can hear and it kind of creeps you out and you'd like them to be quieter. I'll bet they'll listen. If it doesn't get better, find a quiet spot in your house or outside where you can go when it starts, or buy some headphones and listen to some music.
I think it would make everyone uncomfortable to hear their parents in the bed room. I would simply tell them how you feel. If you can't talk to them, leave them a note sharing your feelings. As a parent, I would be mortified if my children heard me! But I would have a lot of respect for them sharing their feelings and make it a point to change a behavior such as this that was making them so uncomfortable. Your feelings are very normal and your parents should respect how you feel about their actions when you're in the home!
OMG i understand my mom is such a sex freak lol but yea just listen to your i pod or something!!
How do you think you got here? They've been having sex for longer than the past year!!
You might want to ask your parents to be a little more discreet and tell them it's awkward for you when you know what they're doing. Noone wants to think too much about their parents and those sort of things. Write them a note if you have to!
At least be happy that your parents are still with each other and liking it!
I dunno i think your in your adolescence now? yeah it is kinda bothering for us to hear banging sound, i think you are mature and just handle it maturely. if you get bothered just stroll for awhile. im sure that if they are having sex now they are in i think 30s?
It's normal for you to react to your parents' sexuality, for several reasons. It triggers feelings about your own developing sexuality, plus we don't think of our parents as sexual beings, they seem like parents, not people, if you know what I mean.
You should let them know, politely and constructively, that you hear their activities and want to solve this problem.
In the meantime, can you go for a walk, use some headphones to play music so you can't hear them, or go to a friends' or relatives' house?
It's actually a good thing that they enjoy their love for each other. It's just not good that you can hear them.
OK; the truth is that your parents are supposed to be having sex. It's their right as human beings. It is also true that you should tell them that they are being heard by you and believe me, that's all they need to hear. They will take measures to be more quiet and or private. You could just say, "Hey, are you guys closing your door? Cause it sure is noisy when you are messing around"? Trust me, that's all they need to hear. Sex is primarily a private thing. I am sure they don't want you to be involved or disturbed.
Are you under 18? I hope so because in this case I would really try to talk to my parents about their "wrestling". You don't have to tell them that you know they are having sex but you can let then know that their "wrestling" can get kind of loud when you try to sleep and is it any way for them to keep it down. You can't be disgusted, angry, and annoyed because that's how you were created. If you are over 18, go and get your own place. That way you don't have to worry about it. And they can rump shake all night without worrying about bothering you.
You should know by now that it is perfectly normal for people that are married to have sex. This is not a surprise that people that are married have sex. You are perfectly aware that your parents are having sex so it is time for you to move on. You one day will be married and finding it very rewarding to have sex with your wife/husband(you didn't say you were a girl or boy). It is such a great thing that your parents are having sex every few days and especially when they DO have children. Having children gets in the way of having sex because of the reasons you have listed above. Parents just don't have the privacy or the time to have sex regularly. They have it when they can. Your parents have to be commended for keeping their marriage alive. You are aware of what is going on so it is your responsibility to not get upset but maybe to just give them their privacy. Maybe you can put on some headphones or do something that won't preoccupy everything that they are doing.
oh hell, i would feel disgusted too. Well you didnt post your age so i'm thinking you are pretty young since you mentioned your parents expect you to believe they are really wrestling. I kinda experienced this and i lashed out at my mom and yelled at her mentioning that i hear them. So to avoid the tention between you'll i will find a way to tell them. Writing a letter has worked for me at times(cause talking was too hard). I mean i hope you dont expect their intimacy to stop but i dont think you should be hearing them, thats a private thing and they should keep it that way.
honey, your parents have been having sex for way more than the past year. i mean, they made you didn't they? hearing your parents have sex can make you feel as you do. it is a private act that seems very public to you. you can ask them to quiet down a bit when they are knocking boots. talk to your dad about it. tell him you know what is going on. and that it sometimes embarresses you. and that you get curious to just what is all that noise going on? and, could they keep the noise level down, or play the radio a little louder.
honestly, alot of people feel the way you do about your parents healthy sex life. but i will tell you that if you are uncomfortable about your feelings you can change them by changing the way you think. so, it is a fortunate kid that has parents that love each other enough to express it so often. sex and /or love making can be a barometer of a couple's relationship, so, guy, they must be getting along. and that is good.
First of all how old are you? Your parents should really set better examples and conduct themselves in a proper manner. Sex between a Husband and wife is a very normal act of love. It is not proper of them to be intimate while you are present and can hear the act taking place. That is really low class and they should have some panache on how to raise their Children and what not to expose them to etc. They need to be more discrete and wait until you are out of the house or fast asleep. Perhaps if you can talk to one of your parents and let them know this feeling makes you uneasy they will get the picture? They should not exploit you to their bad manners. When you hear them in the act of love making, Turn up your TV or Music Loud so that they get the picture. If you have the chance to go outdoors until they are finished that is always an option too. You really should not be subjected to their foolishness. They sound like a very selfish and ignorant couple. Perhaps you can learn a valuable lesson from their ignorance. You have nothing to be ashamed about it is their fault and their negligence.
God Bless you
How old are you? You could move out...
how old are you??
when i was about 14/15 i felt exactly the same way and im glad iv found some one whos letting me know its normal.. i really dont know why?? its like a sicky feeling in the bottom of your stomach...
i banged on their bedroom door a few times and cried but their reaction was "discusting" trying to act like it was normal...
what i do nowadays is just turn the tell on or music and ignre it and eventually i go to sleep
I would definitely video tape it and then send it to me please.
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