Why cant i change my life?

Today was my final straw. I have had 4 jobs in the last 12 months and today i got fired yet again. Not because i was a bad worker but because i had to many sick days. I was not even sick. so many mornings i just cant bring myself to get out of bed. I smoke i lie i steal i abuse my friends trust. I am the most horrible person ever. I have not had family support since i was 14 and have struggled through life ever since. I was evicted from my house because i couldnt afford the rent and now im staying with my best friend who means the world to me. I cant get a job i have no motivation and im over weight a smoker and a complete loser.i just want life to be happier. im tired of being depressed HELP ME !!!

Answer:
quit smoking. quit lying... quit stealing.... quit abusing your friends trust and become a normal person
exercise and start using a timer and JUMP out of bed do a run around the block and throw the cigrettes away. DONT steal that is horrible just be nice and you will feel great!!
Don't take this the wrong way but.read the bible lol. Atleast your admitting you probelms you can only change if you really want to. Get serious if you want to stop smoking get the patch or something maybe get a night job or get a job that has limited times you can call in sick a year uhm airport jobs are pretty strict
uhhh idk
Well, the first step is to realize that the only person who can change your life is you. You have to chose what life you want to lead. Yes, you have had a rough journey up until this point, but you have to decide if you would rather be a victim or a survivor. You cannot blame your mistakes on what has happened in your past. Take that from experience.
However, it does sound as though you have a chemical imbalance, so you really should see a doctor to get a prescription. It doesn't have to be permanent thing, but you really should consider some type of anti-depressant to take until you get back on the right track. I hope you pull out of this.
Lee the answer is in your question ... you are sick. Depression is real and treatable. Good luck.
dear i will recommend you to go through some spritual healing ...best to you had to be decided by you ...it depends more on you r culture and background ...

but it should be one which can convey the real meaning of life to you...beacuse one thing is sure ....life is precious gift of god and you are wasting it if you are acting like that....

think a bit ..bcause its you only who can ....

still need some help ...i m always there
Alot of times we fall into this rut where we feel worthless and useless.it's called a dameged self-esteem. A low self-esteem can do so much damage to a person, it's not even funny. I am sure you are a great person, you just won't allow yourself to see it. I know what you are going through, I smole 2 1/2 packs of cigs a day and I sometimes don't want to get out of the bed, even if there is a million dollars laying at the foot of my bed. But you gotta make yourself get up, take a shower, clean up and dress up even if you have no where to go, my mother always told me if you look good you will usually feel good. I know itdoesnt help when you have been depressed and then you lose jobs, but what you gotta do now is pick yourself up off the floor and move forward.
Go and find another ob, surround your self with some friends, even if you dont have alot of friends, find a few and start doing things with them. CLean up and dress up, start each day with going to the mirror and saying something nice to yourself...Like I have nice eyes, I have a good smile, I am a funny person, say at least one thing that will make you feekl better about yourself. I wish you the best of luck and I know that if you just give yourself a chance, things will work out for you.

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