How can i get back to the girl i used to be?

I used ot be the nicest most confident girl and for th epast 6 months i have spent all my time crying and wingeing and being selfish, i had so many plans for my life and now i can nnot see anything making me back to the gir l i used ot be, its so distressing as i just dont want this to have happened to me! I was always so caring and fun and now i am horrible and selfish and i dont know how to get better, i dont want to do anyhting now, as there is nothing i am doingbecause i want to. I'm such an idiot! I have stuffed up my life and cannot get betetr! What can i do? How did you deal with this type of thing?

Answer:
SS it seems that something has definitely shifted for you, and you have a time line. What has happened in the past 6 months that makes you feel you've gone through such a drastic change? Don't beat yourself up for not being able to be that girl you used to be. Life changes all the time, and instead of concentrating on the things that were, focus on the things that are, no matter how hard they may be, because sometime later, you'll be somewhere else, in the world or with yourself and you should be able to accept yourself, as you are and move forward. It seems that you've perhaps become depressed or maybe experienced something that's changed your scope of living. It may be a good idea to find someone you can talk to about your changes or your desire to improve. If you can't see a way to do it on your own, find help.
You should see somebody, or at least talk to a friend or family member. Also, try to take life less seriously and realize that people make mistakes and no matter what you do, tommarow is a new day. Don't give up and Don't look down on yourself. Being sad is healthy sometimes, but so is getting back up. You know what helps me? Listening to some uplifting songs. The song "Garden Party" by Rick Nelson, has a real uplifting message and is based on a true story. Feel Free to contact me if you need to talk to someone, I wish you the best of luck.
what are you right now?

not suffering, certainly

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