Scared of guys, help?

I am 18 year old straight female but whenever guys look at me and its pretty often, i get extremley self conscious. Most girls would die for the attention i get but i could die from it. I am scared to be touched or looked at by guys. I am not shy or insecure around men in general, I am just terrified of men. Please help
i guess it chages things a little, if i tell you i went through a traumatic event when i was little beaucase of a male teacher

Answer:
Hi You need to go through some therapy even if you have had therapy before its clear you are still not completely over the event that happened to you when you was younger. please see a therapist or doctor as they can help you get past this fear. I have the same problem and it took a long time to be able to trust a man again. But now I have 4 kids and a great hubby. they are not all the same and although you may think you are over the traumatic event that happened your clearly not until them men looking at you does not make you feel like that anymore.
i am so sorry about your past. no one should have to go through that as a child. have you been to therapy for that event? you may feel as is it is unneeded now, but there could be memories and other problems that are actually causing this problem. it would be a good idea to seek professional help. there is obviously a reason for this. the event which you had to go through as a child is probably a large reason for this, but if it has only been recently, it may be something else that triggered this. good luck. god bless.

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