After I have sex with my boyfriend i get depressed... and feel like crying and i dont know why...what do i do?
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Geez, I would have more questions than answers for you but here goes.first off, is the sex satisfying to you? If not, you could be frustrated, just because it was great for him, doesn't mean it was good for you! The second part to this would be how to bring the subject up.which is another question completely.
If you do achieve orgasm, it could be the physical release that makes you feel like crying, sort of 'opens up' your sensitivity, which can be overwhelming..but just understand that your feelings are ok, no matter what they are, and hopefully you have an understanding boyfriend..
Further, as someone else mentioned, you could have been abused as a young child, maybe you don't remember or repressed it as a coping mechanism. That's more common than people realize. So sex could be opening those old wounds that you might not even know exist..
Another reason for your crying could be that you're not satisfied with your relationship with him, there could be other things within the relationship that are bothering you, but you tend to feel it more after sex..
As for a chemical imbalance? You would feel depressed most of the time, your sleep and eating habits would change, things that used to be fun just aren't any more..your energy level could drop, but you would notice it as an overall change in yourself, not just after sex..
Because I don't know which of these is going on, I suggest you think about some of these things, and if you feel like you might be suffering from depression, or that the sex itself is bringing up bad memories from the past, then you should look into therapy. You can log onto WebMD for a depression test, check out the results and talk to your doctor. But mainly, I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling, if he's a good man, he will be understanding and listen and want to help. If not, then maybe he isn't the guy for you.good luck.hope some of this helps!
From your avatar I judge you are teen. May be you are still not grown for this. Dont do it.
It's probably not a chemical imbalance. Those things go on all day, usually.
It may be that when you were little someone molested you, or bothered you sexually, somehow. You may have forgotten it.
You may want to try therapy, to check on it.
feeling guilty and not being happy with your image or feeling that you are not good at it, seek some profesional help and don't let it grow into something more painful.
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Well i know that when you do have sex you become sensitive because having zex release a hormone and we experience that, like me when I had sex with my partner and I will be depress then I will be saying i'm not good enought etc. It's an emotional state for some after sex.
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