***BEST ANSWER GUARANTEED*** What do you do in this situation?!?
i'm not even talking to him right now, for my sake mainly. he's said some weird things. but i'm just worried about him. he needs to get checked out and be put on meds. i don't know if i should try to tell him myself (i don't think that will do anything but cause more trouble) or get his friends to or what. his friends don't know as much as i do, and much of what i know has been told to me in confidence.
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Talk to his parents instead of his friends. His parents may be able to talk to him, get help for him, or at the very least put your mind at ease. They may not be aware of the situation that you and he are in.
I know a guy just like this. We talked to a counselor about him and the counselor helped him out, even if the guy was seriously pissed that we went behind his back about it.
*hugs* Be strong! This is a hard situation, but he needs you to help him in whatever way you feel comfortable.
pinky, you are soooooooooo f eddd up
he loves you though
there is nobody else like you
that last post could not have been written by anyone else
Since you are no longer really speaking, to tell him yourself would be a mistake. At this point, unless you feel he is a danger to himself or someone else, just pray for him. He already knows something is wrong, he needs to seek help from a professional, but until he is ready, he probably won't. Bringing it up now will only anger him.
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Dear chasey..since you said that he is your "ex" boyfriend, the best advice that you can be given is to keep as much distance as you can. It is very very difficult to cope with someone who has this disorder and not everyone is strong enough to endure. It can truly "suck the life" out of you and the more emotionally involved you are with the person, the more difficult it is. You need to move on with your life and take it in another direction. Your ex will have to get help at some point and it should be up to someone other than you to point him in that direction.,....best wishes
If you really care about him, then you would help him get some help. Its no fun being bipolar and people just assume you are crazy!!
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