Addicted to Pain?...?
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Yeah, I do have a suggestion based on experience. See a psychiatrist and a psychologist both. A psychiatrist can give you medication which can help to influence your thinking. And a psychologist can help you with your symptoms by showing you how to change the way you feel by changing the way you think. I have to compliment you, though. You realize that you have a problem and you're willing to do something about it.
If I may be so bold, your problem lies in your mindset as does the solution. You yourself said that you don't think you should be happy because you have such a deprived life. By thinking that way, you're your own worst enemy. So start making a gratitude list that can start out really basic. Are you a coffee drinker? If so, do you have coffee to drink? If you do, start out the gratitude list by saying, "I am grateful that I have plenty of coffee to drink." You start out your list in that way and start from the general to the specific. What you'll find is that two thoughts cannot occupy the same space at the same time. And in that way, you can learn to be your best friend rather than your own worst enemy.
I think this best describes you as a Machonist, one who is arroused by pain (opposite of a Sadist). I'm not sure if it is a problem, but pain is necessary because it tells you something is wrong. As long as it doesn't affect those around around you, then I guess you're fine
You Deserve Less Stress!
There's so much to do these days and so little time.
And it seems there's always something or someone to worry about.
But, all that rushing around isn't good for you, and worrying never changes a thing!
Plain and simple, you need a break!
So, claim at least 5 minutes a day for you!
No guilt allowed!
It'll renew you!
And you're worth it!!
Try picking up a sport such as running or kick-boxing. Also you might want to find some friends (positive friends). Sports are really good for meeting people. If you play World of Warcraft, Diablo2, Star Craft or any other online game; that could be the reason. There is a time and a place for games, just not all day every day.
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