14 years old and I'm always depressed... What should I do?? Help me Please.. I'm broken...?
I have a boyfriend who loves me like hell and I love him just as much... My best friend rocks! she set me up with my boyfriend and I love her for that... But the thing is she is too sarcastic.. always makes fun of everything. cant even share my feelings with her anymore.. So anyway, my boyfriend's best friend is like my second best friend and we share ALOT... I'm studying in one of the leading and the coolest schools in my country and I play awesome guitar in a band (really dont wanna brag but it's true! lol).. I have a mom and a dad and a brother who is 5 years older than he and always beats me up (never take that personally though...You see, I have a perfect life any girl would die for.. but why do I always feel depressed??.. For instance, I think my boyfriend deserves way better than me and my best friend is too sarcastic.. I always feel down and I hide it from everyone.. do u think Im doing the right thing by hiding?
Answer:
No, hiding it will only make it build up inside you and one day you will explode. Trust me, I didn't think it would happen to me but it did! Try seeing your school counselor or talk to your parents about seeing a counselor. It might seem weird but a LOT of kids go to therapy. It's nice when you find a therapist that you are comfortable with because you can tell them practically anything and just vent. Good luck!
Why do you feel inadequate? It doesn't cost you anything to talk with a school counselor. You need someone to talk to, and unload those negative vibes. You are writing them here so that is a start, just don't keep it bottled up.
u shud definitly not hide it.
u shud try tellin ur best frend how u feel about her, and dat bcus of her always bein sarcastic u cant tell her al ur feelings n stuff. it doesnt sound like she is a real best frien if she is always making fun of everything.u shud try talkin to ur boyfriend, tellin him dat u feel he deserves betta...hopefully d stuff he tells u will get u feelin good about ur self again.
I agree with the answers above. Talk to a school counsellor. Sometimes, it might seem as if you have it all but there could be something still bugging you.
Good luck!
See depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2: practise daily, and when needed, one of the relaxation techniques, and work on boosting your self esteem.
Talk to your school counselor...And if you have a perfect life than why are you depressed? I don't think that's something to be depressed about...unless there's something in your life that's making you depressed. Don't take your best friend too seriously, but tell her how you feel if she doesn't stop. And do not hide that will only make it worse. Share your feelings! Well thats about all I can say I hope that helped. :)
talk to your mama,she will help,aint mothers made to help??
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