Addicted to porn and masturbating?
Please help.
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Most things in moderation is OK.. even porn.... Sounds like you have gone over the edge.... Might be time for professional counseling or SA (Sexaholics Anonymous ) check out their web site on www.sa.org.. Only you can decide if it's a problem, but if it's all consuming. that's not good...
one day you will move on
I love women and get a lot and women love me and get alot from me
so not to worry
I don't believe this is a serious question. I think your trying to be funny. If you are serious get counseling and stop posting your personal info on the internet. Hey heres an idea-get rid of the internet and that would stop you from downloading filth and from posting stupid questions in a public forum!
Try getting a hobby to take your mind off of it.
As for the excessiveness of each of them.
I suggest becoming more social and stay in public places (malls, parks, etc) more often. That way, it would be practically impossible for you to get your hands on some porn (or your penis).
It would be impossible for you to stop all at once, so rather than 4-5 hours of porn, try 1-2 (same idea goes for masturbating).
It's hard to quit, but if you have a LITTLE willpower, you can do it.
Who pays the internet bill? If you see it, the addiction will automatically come down.
Buddy you have an issue. I have the same problem. It stops you from getting anywhere in life if you let it.
I finally realized what has been happening and there are so many constructive things I need to be doing. I have been married for 18-years and do not know how I have made it this long in my marriage. I think it is for my children's sake. My wife and I tried having sex the other day, but she has gained a lot of weight and it was not too exciting for me. It has been almost a year since the last time we did it.
What I am trying to say is that if you do not have an outlet (girlfriend or significant other) for your needs it is very easy to get addicted to the hotties on the Internet. It consumes you, and it was consuming me. I have gotten my problem under control somewhat and still working on it. Focus on something that is going to create you some money so you can have a future and maybe a hottie to go to bed with each night. http://www.website.ws/goeselek#ticket... check it out! This is what I have been doing and it has been keeping me busy.
Stop the porn now...just don't watch it, don't buy it don't order it. Masturbate all you want, but try taking up some time working out. It will help release some of the same endorphines and might help your decrease in need. Also get a job! Sounds like you have waaaay too much time on your hands...no pun intended!
Hi Talk 2 Ur folks. They mite get mad & wont leave U alone. Esp sisters! If U cant find help or ways 2 stop see counselor.
Hi, Addict.
You are not alone . I feel for you seriously. I am in the same shoes. I have the same problem. When I was a bachelor it was somewhat okay even though I still felt guilt doing it at the time. I could not stop at one flick...I would buy several and masturbate 3 to 4 times a day... I would go from movie thearter to movie theater...I felt so much guilt...so much anguish. Getting married does not help either as I have not stopped. I still want to sleep with many women without actually sleeping with them. women I cant get in real life.I wish someone could help us both.
get yourself a good (free) filter like one from www.k9webprotection.com --- also look up 'porn addiction' on the web, you should be able to find some sites that help deal with that.
Peace+
GET A GIRLFRIEND
have a friend put a block on all porn sites, and the password to unblock it should be one only he knows. DO IT. This way, you'll have no choice but to cut back. You'll be forced to go to the video store if you have an urge which sucks. Or you can, i dont know, GET A REAL LIFE GIRL!
Porn = SiN
You can't stop this on your own. Just like drug addiction, alcohol or cigarettes you need a professionals help.
Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.
Don't let porn conrol you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.
You could consider getting a filter on your computer (something like NetNanny) that will make it harder to access the filthy stuff. BTW, porn sites are very likely to give you a computer virus.
Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you.
Masturbation without the porn is normal -- don't worry about that. But you need to get rid of your porn addiction as fast as you can.
Good luck!
www.xxxchurch.com They have a program designed just for that. Get a friend of yours that you trust, and know will keep it confidential. Its more of a support system, the more you talk about it and how much of a waste it is, the more you will forget about doing it and move on to other more beneficial things.
How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet
1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog Porn Filter,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.
2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov
3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.
4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.
5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.
6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.
Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.
Internet Porn Filter Resource:
http://www.netdogsoft.com
i no how it feels man...ive been trying to stop for many years...and i finally got it to stop (if i want)..for 2 weeks i only watched it every other day(insted of everyday) after doing it eery other day if its still all you can think of keep doing it every other day...then start to do it every three days...it works but cuz im not adicted and i just find it as a hobby i do it twice a week..if this does not work for youand im sorry...god luck!1
NEVER touch the private parts of your body except when going to the toilet or when washing them! Your genitals are dirty, nasty, evil, filthy parts of your body.
Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this good company. If the good company seems hesitant to have you along with them, be persistent. Just hang around with them no matter what. They will get use to you sooner or later.
If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will.
This can even lead to "mutual masturbation" for which you will surely go to hell! And I'm talking about mutual masturbation with the opposite sex. If you practice it with the same sex, you have even bigger problems than just masturbating. Especially if you like it.
You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be taken OUT OF YOUR MIND for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things.
If any of your present friends have pimples, yellow teeth, runny noses or excessive ear wax, avoid them like the measles!
When you bathe, never, never, never admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress. Take icy cold showers so you won't want to stay in the shower very long. Dry your private parts VERY VERY QUICKLY, AND THEN GET OUT OF THE BATHROOM into a room where you will have some member of your family present. ALWAYS leave the bathroom door OPEN!
When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. Wear several layers of pants and put each layer on BACKWARDS so that there is no opening for you to access your private parts. By the time you start to remove protective clothing you wll have sufficiently controlled your thinking so that the temptation will leave you.
Remember, your mother isn't stupid. When she washes your clothes and bedding, don't think she doesn't notice those stains on the sheets or how one sock is stuck together on the inside and the other one is not.
And if you don't have a cold 365 days a year, how will you explain the constant pile of dirty tissues in the wastebasket and on the floor?
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If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. Better to be fat than to go to Hell!
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT EVER use mayonnaise on your sandwich. It will trigger thoughts of other things which you must avoid thinking about. If you are a female, stay away from the hot dogs, carrots, cucumbers and Italian sausage! And girls, NEVER put a candle on the table and light it, pretending you have class. Candles are used for only one purpose and you know what that is!
The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
Never read pornographic material. Stay away from the Old Testament stories about King David! Never read about your problem. Keep it out of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." Get rid of any magazines like Playboy or Playgirl or, if you are a gay male, Boy's Life.
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