How can my bf stop?
I say to him that i dont mind as i dont want him to get a complex, but its really getting to me now!
We do it often and sometimes upto 3 / 4 times a day on a good day, but even that doesn't make him last longer....HELP
Answer:
condoms, and you can buy a desensastizing (SP?) cream, but I'm not sure if they work. talking helps, maybe he's apprehensive to please you, and it makes him nervous and he looses his concentration? remember, communication is EVERYTHING!! =))
There are desensitizing mists and lotions. you can also consider using a cockring.
There's a squeeze technique, you stop, and squeeze at the base of the p*nis, until the climaxing urge goes...or maybe viagra would help - it's time to bite the bullet and ask your doctor. If he won't go, then you go, it wouldn't hurt you to ask.
get him to stop when he feels like hes about to come. when the feeling dies down a bit, let him carry on. not only will this make him last longer but when he does finally come it'll feel amazing (apaprently).
other methods include him thinking of margaret thatcher naked on a cold day (or something equally grim), or the squeeze. when he's about to come, you or him squeeze gently around the base of his penis to reduce the bloodflow. it is safe to do if done gently.
happy humping!
You could initiate more foreplay, maybe you are just not that turned on? He could also make you orgasm from oral sex. That may make him *** even quicker though! Lol!
Get him to "spank the monkey" before hand, if that doesn't work, invest in a c*ck ring. This will stop him from ejaculating until the ring is released.
no no no! they are all wrong!
do you love him? trust eachother?
one question, do you climax when you have sex? as in, really climax?
Try this with an open mind:
get a small clitoral vibrator, and be totally open with eachother about it. try being on top, but dont allow him move. just let him inside. you use the stimulator to reach climax, with minimal movement. as you begin to climax, the natural tensing and releasing of your muscles will stimulate him and you may well reach orgasm together.
suggest it and do try! it is an incredible feeling to climax with my gf and to watch her reach multiple orgasm on a very regular basis!
you can use the toy in so many positions, and he doesn't need to use his movement to get you off, so he shouldn't have to worry about too much movement causing premature ejaculation.
TRY IT!!
:-)
3-4 times a day??? You are lucky he is climaxing at all.
Maybe you should call 911
he needs to do endurance exercises like running or jogging. it will make a big big difference. no body touch. specially palms of hands. just his jolly in your wholly and no more body contact. but joking aside, running will make an amazing difference.
Make him go down on you to get you off most girls dont get off by penis penatration so get him to use his tongue
Get him to hold back and stop a couple of times before he comes and then when he does c*m it will be amazing!
Tell him he doesnt need to pound away at you like a porn star. That sort of thing only works in movies. Slow and steady sometimes, hard and fast others. If he feels like he is going to climax, he needs to slow down or stop for a minute or two. If he isnt willing to try, he is just out to get his, and doesnt care about you. You need to tell him this is bothering you, if you can't you dont have a strong relationship and shouldnt be having sex with him anyway.
About a minute before he actually climaxes, stop touching him or have him stop thrusting, to alleviate the sensation. Once he is relaxed and not sensitive to touch, begin again. Do this a couple of time before letting him climax.
If you do it right (and have fun doing it), over time he will become more accustomed to the sensations and when he starts to get close, he can slow down himself to prolong it.
When he gets close to climaxing, have him switch to pleasing just you (oral, fingers, rubbing) until he relaxes. It's simply basic training for his Willey. Keep practing and Willey will get smarter .
This will let him go longer and let you have 3-4 solid "O's" before he has his. With time and practice, his holding power will increase.
Maybe you're just so hot he can't help himself! Take it as a compliment!
Tell him to focus on something non sexual, like a chair for example?? either that or a cockring.
your bf might not know this is the case, since as you've said, you haven't told him anything...so he might think you're satisfied. so the first thing is to let him know that you are not satisfied when he comes too quickly and that he should try to control how fast he comes. all men come relatively fast the first "round," but on the second round the level of stimulation should have died down enough for him to keep on without focusing too much on his willy. there are lots of funny mumbo jumbo techniques on the net...they don't work. tell him and you'll sort this out between the two of you
nothing.dump the loser and move on.
maybe you're too damn sexy and he can't help himself
2 options -
tell him have a load of booze - it will be like getting blood out of a stone
or
get him to pull out when he's ready to shoot and go down on you then when he's ready again pump you more and so on
how long does he actually take. 3-5 minutes is normally for full penetration. get him to go for about a minute then stop and kiss or something, then go again. good luck
bye a good dildo he ent man enough 4 u
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