19 years old...having erection problems with my girl. HELP!?
Answer:
premature ejaculation is a common problem especially for an overexcited newbie to the world of sex.
Try
a) regular masturbation to lower your sex drive some
b) learning more about yoru own sexual responses so you know what feels good and what doesn't as well as the feelings you get as you are reaching orgasm
c) more foreplay and more communication. Let her manipulate you all she wants but get her to stop just before you hit climax. Have her repeat this several times.
d) less concentration on her playing with you and more effort into you fiddling around with her sensitive bits. After all, sex is about two people sharing a mutually pleasing experience so in your case she is th eopne who needs more stimulation to bring her to yoru level of sexcitement thus making it easier to orgasm together.
And if all else fails, get some desensitizing dream and get her to apply it to your penis as part of foreplay; just be sure to have her keep her hands away from her sensitive parts and for her to put a condom on you before any penetration lest the cream also desensitize her.
And above all, relax more; you are too wired up when engaging in foreplay and it is causing some of your problem.
You may be psyching yourself out.
Relax, stop putting pressure on yourself and go slow and easy.
If all else fails, speak to your doctor, he may be able to help by prescribing cialis (better than Viagra)
could be that you are to concerned about it or to nervous. try a little more foreplay with her first and see if that doesn't help.or you could try just cuddling with her no pressure about sex and just let nature take it's course. good luck.
stop thinking about it. thats all. you have to relax
I agree you've got yourself all worked up and youre to nervous now. Just relax, obviously she's being patient and cares about you so thats all u really need to know to comfort u. Just take it slow and tell her that u r a virgin and a little scared (trust me she wont think youre wierd for being "vulnerable") u should be able to talk to her anyway if youre attempting to have sex. Usually once you express your fears and stop keeping them all bottled up the prob goes away on their own, I had a bf who had this prob and thats what we did and it fixed itself. Try not to psych yourself out and relax instead, it will happen for you 2.
~You're too anxious. Try yanking it before meeting where ever you guys meet, so you won't be so horny. I agree, she should know that you're a virgin.
You need foreplay, it's important if you want to keep her interested. You need to have oral sex on her until she orgasms. It should make you feel better, in case you get too anxious and lose it again. Talk about buying a vibrator. You could also try a desensitizer that you apply to your penis.~
1) FORGET about her experience...has nothing to do with you. Consider her a virgin also. Tell her that. Get it on the table ... you have no experience
2) Your problem is NOT erectile, it is premature ejacuation...This problem can be solved if all involved are patient and willing. Here is how it is done. Either have her jack or BJ you just to the point of orgasm, have her place her thumb nail just under the backside of the head and gentley or forcefully squeeze with her nail slightly sinking into your flesh..a mild pain will result, nothing dramatic here. Do this over and over...she should know that just before orgasm, the male will start swelling...it is very obvious to both the hand and mouth...the dick gets very hard suddenly, and much larger...that is the time to apply the pressure. do this often enough and your orgasms will begin to be delays...like training Pavlov's dog...we can all change behavior with enough rote training. This method works on all men, if it is done right, and repeated over and over. good luck
garlic can help...and then mints lots of mints
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