I'm 19 and can't get an erection when I look at girls, what's wrong with me.?
Answer:
Nothing's wrong with you. You are a kind of guy that is aroused by intimacy and closeness instead of thrill and exposure. It's a good thing - I'm the same way.
You don't get turned on just by looking at girls, that's a good thing. You aren't overtly sexual. When you are in a real solid relationship, you'll see that the deeper and closer you become mentally (or the mental/emotional intimacy) will lead to the physical intimacy. You'll get erections and see that they are about being in and giving love to your wife and not just selfishly "getting off". Who do you love in that case? Only yourself.
What you feel can be thought as good because you won't be too forced to become intimate physically before you are committed first, on the inside, before you commit with your body.
you need to get counseling
Maybe your gay.
Maybe your not attracted to normal things.
Try looking at midgets, fat people, old people, men.
Your no doubt in mind gay try giving head
maybe your gay
When you find your body close to another naked, things will work as they are supposed to. Don't sweat it.
I agree with Mike J. Just relax, put away the porn and learn to enjoy your female friends as just that...friends. After all, you will need to know how to like someone as a friend before you are able to really love them. And, intimate friendship is what will keep a marriage strong...not hot sex. When a marriage goes through stressful times, it is the relationship bonds (trust, honor, loyalty, etc.) that keeps it from falling apart, not sex. Don't let the if not this then that mentality rob you of your deepest desire. This does not indicate that you are gay.
have u thought about looking at different types of things...maybe other things like midgets or something arouses u.or just try men
i agree with mike j. u realize the value of sex & u need to share it with someone special. believe me,thst makes it a WHOLE lot better.
your gay. not that theres anything wrong
This is my honest opinion so don't take it the wrong way. I think your parents screwed you up by not addressing sexuality and girls when you were younger. Sheltered people are always immature and unaware of things including sexuality and sh*t. Also, maybe you're just gay.
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